====== Management & Leadership ====== ===== Knowledge ===== ==== Personality Models ==== * Personality models are a way to think less intuitive and more structured about members of a team to determine their strength, weaknesses and therefore tasks and work environment they may be good or bad at/in. * None of these models can be used as absolute truth, at most treat it as priority * "Person X" seems introvert, maybe he should not be the first person I ask about presenting the company at a conference === Big Five === // * B5 is a widely accepted, scientific model in social sciences * Each of the five traits typically follow a gauss distribution, the average person falls somewhere in the middle * -> It is useful to know if a specific person is near one of the edges * "science tells us" that a routine person is not just "bad" at "imaginative tasks", he would need to change his personality before becoming good at them * There is no claim that the model can predict anything for an individual person, e.g. * Out of a Million persons the one who are high in conscientiousness are generally more successful * That does not mean a specific disorganized person is (or will be) unsuccessful // * Conscientiousness * Disorganized -> Disciplined * Agreeableness * Uncooperative -> Trusting * Neuroticism * Confident -> Anxious * Openness (to experience) * Routine -> Imaginative * Extraversion * Reserved -> Sociable === MBTI === // * Imo MBTI just sucks * It is a "popular science" model without grounding in actual science * MBTI does not acknowledge that the traits are a scale and instead sorts people onto boxes of EITJ, ISTP and so on // | Extraversion |Introversion | | Sensing | Intuition | | Thinking | Feeling | | Judging | Perceiving | === DISC === // * DISC is also "popular science" model without grounding in actual science * Imo DISC sucks less than MBTI since is has fewer boxes and less extreme claims - that makes it far more usable in practice// | Dominant (Red) \\ direct, decisive | Influence (yellow)\\ outgoing, action oriented | | Cautious, Conscientious (blue)\\ work oriented, shy, calculating | Steadiness (green) | ==== Communication ==== === 4 Ears / v.Thun === * Self-Revelation * Factual * Relationship * Appeal === Communication Iceberg === | Conscious | Figures, Facts, Guidelines, laws | | Unconscious | Desires, Needs, Emotions (anger, disappointment) | | Totally unconscious | Basis needs (growth, security, recognition) | //The Iceberg Model (also Parento Principle or 80/20) divides communication into a conscious/visible part (20%) and an uncounscious/hidden (80%) part. * As a generic rule if a persons desires or need are affected conscious facts and figures will have a hard time being registered at all. * If a persons physical needs (security, place in society) are affected the effect will be even more pronounced. (this of course goes for nearly all aspects of life, not just communication) // ==== Question Techniques ==== * Closed * Open * Follow up * Alternative * Circular - //image you are in the position XY// * Hypothetical - //imagine we did XY// * Scaling // * Close questions are generally considered bad because they limit the amount of information that can be gained. * Open questions are considered "good" * Follow up questions are a chance to keep a conversation alive to hopefully good outcomes and show interest * Alternative, circular, hypothetical or scaling questions have specific used, but for basic use they can be applied to mix things up and promote new ways of thinking about a problem // ===== Tools ===== ==== Active Listening ==== * Body language and genuine interest * Remarks and follow up questions ==== Feedback ==== * Perception -> Effect -> Wish // I saw you being late 5 times in a row, that makes you/me/us look bad, please come in on time // === Feedback rules === * No generalization * Clear wording * Close to observed behavior ==== Conflict Discussion ==== * Good preparation (invitation, preparation, room) * Allow preparation time for invitees (preferably not the weekend) * A short warm-up (//how are you//) * Thank for willingness to communicate, create positive atmosphere * No further small talk * Clarify topics, goals and time frame * Present all viewpoints * Facts, Perception, Background, Feelings, Interests * If applicable: apologize * Examine possible solutions based on common interests * Discuss specific ideas * Make agreements, summary & positive ending * Create Follow up meeting * Reflect on conversation and outcome